How To Start A Writing Blog and HAVE FUN

There’s plenty of ‘how to blog effectively’ articles out there, and you may be wondering, “Why should I take advice from someone who has ~300 followers?”

The reason I think you should care is that I feel those 300 followers is about average, perhaps a little more or less, to what you should expect after blogging in the writing community for about a year (which is where I am) with absolutely 0 online presence beforehand.

The main way to succeed at blogging is to not give up.  You may never get paid for it, and you may never get famous, but you will still gain from the experience.  Here’s how.


What Blogging Can (Will) Get You

You can easily get articles about ‘how to direct traffic to your blog’ or stories about how people succeeded.  Some of that crap works, but in real life?  This Bo Burnham quote sums up my thoughts on most of that advice:

I would say don’t take advice from people like me who have gotten very lucky, we’re biased. You know, like Taylor Swift telling you to follow your dreams is like a lottery winner telling you, ‘Liquidize your assets, buy Powerball tickets, it works!’

— Bo Burnham on TBS’s Conan, 2016

bo burnham

The same can apply to advice from successful bloggers or, gasp, authors.  Sure, they put in the effort, they had skill, and they did what was necessary to start the process, but an element of luck plays into all of it. None of us are failures when luck or zeitgeist didn’t fall our way.

What you can really expect is to contact a few other dedicated bloggers or, in my case, author-bloggers.  You can expect to see more of what other people do, recognize what choices you have and what steps you need to take if you do want to chase a dream like publishing – either traditional or self-published.

What You Must Pay

While I believe having more than the free plan would help me grow my blog, direct monetary loss isn’t what I’m talking about.  I’m talking about payments of effort.  Time is something even free bloggers have to spend.


When it comes to your own posts, you’ll figure out your balance of quality vs. quantity.  I decided to post every day for 3 months in 2018, and that was definitely when I got through the beginning slump – but posting every day isn’t necessary.  What is necessary, if you want to keep growing, is to just not quit. Keep commenting and reading even if you post once a week or once every 2 weeks.

This leads me into the other ‘payment’ – comments.  Likes are penny candy after a while, and you can’t be sure some of those people even read your stuff.  Try using the wp reader for a while – it’s way easier to like than it is to go to the website, load it, read it, then like it.  So yes, like, but also comment – comment like you think the poster is about to quit and you’re the only one who can prevent it.  Even if they don’t care about you in return, you did a good thing.  Start a conversation, be the reader you want other people to be.  Don’t depend on getting secret readers or stuff like that.

Eventually, commenting won’t feel so nerve-wracking.  You’ll just do it.  Right now I have a hard time commenting on popular blogs because I feel like I can’t add to an already illustrious conversation – but that’s not true, and I can get over that psychological block.

Also, don’t be an asshat in the comments.


Have a Good Time

Warning: atypical advice ahead!

If you don’t enjoy blogging, don’t do it. It’s that simple. The chances of getting internet fame or causing your book sales to skyrocket are low, especially after a short time online. If you don’t enjoy the platform, try posting less often.  Try finding a type of post you like better.  Maybe try Twitter (which makes me a nervous wreck, but you can find me @hrrgorman) or Tumblr or Instagram.

If you don’t like blogging, you’ll require more comments, likes, and traffic to feel worthwhile. You might get them – it is possible – but that’s still got a lot of luck basis. If you don’t like blogging, really consider what your ‘final straw’ is. Don’t let online bs drag you down in real life. Have reasonable (aka low) expectations if you are a stat dependent creature.


Do you have any tips for beginning bloggers?  Any questions about startup, fears about where your blog is going?  I’d love to have a chat in the comments, so meet me there!

In 2 weeks, I hope you’ll enjoy my post about writing prompts and how they are super useful to worm yourself into the writing community on WordPress!  Give me a follow if you’re interested!

23 thoughts on “How To Start A Writing Blog and HAVE FUN

  1. Chelsea Owens says:

    Mr. Gorman, you are so wise! Please, please write more! Please don’t ever not blog again!!
    (How’d I do?)

    I also think you could add:
    1. Post somewhat suggestive pictures of you or an attractive family member.

    2. Write something vulnerable or ignorant and ask for input.

    3. Enter other bloggers’ contests.

    • H.R.R. Gorman says:

      Definitely. Some of my best blogging interactions (probably most, now that I think of it) are on other comment sections.

      Beyond just getting more out of it by commenting, it almost seems unfair to receive more attention than you mete out. Some people aren’t out there for attention so much as just archiving, and that’s ok, but I find interaction is the main attraction of having a blog.

  2. Marnie says:

    This is all great advice. I would tell newbies to schedule posts. Pick a day and write some posts out. That way, you can focus more of your time commenting on other people’s blogs, which helps form community.

    Scheduling has been the only thing that keeps me sane on this journey! That and being content with middle of the road results.

    More of this type of post, please! 🙂

  3. Victoria Ray NB says:

    I think all depends on the goal of your blog… if you want to share your personal story/journey or make it more pro. I don’t know, I’m writing only if I feel the vibe to write 🙂 or to share. And nope, I never feel guilty for bullshit I’m posting. Its an awesome BS, so why not? :))
    I just know a lot of bloggers feel like their posts are never good enough or they do something wrong. I believe we can drop our expectations with perfection here. Blogging should be fun, nothing more

    • H.R.R. Gorman says:

      Totally. One thing I think I totally whiffed on with this piece was for people who want an extremely professional front, like you said. If I were to re-write this, I’d have to put the caveat that professionals have different decisions that – at this point in my blogging/writing career – I don’t have the authority or experience to comment on.

  4. J. the Humble says:

    I liked this post and found it super helpful in a way. When I started blogging it felt like an easy way to start working on a book – putting in chapter after chapter. I had no expectation for people to start reading it, but it felt good when someone from my family asked me: “when is the next chapter coming out?”
    In the end, all wanted was to share stories and tinker around the platform because it sparked my creative side. I try to check out what’s happening in other blogs, but with everything that’s going in my life, it can be hard to find the time.
    As always, stay humble my friend, keep posting, and enjoy this Saturday. 🙂

  5. authorwilliammangieri says:

    I have the same block you do about leaving comments – I really have to feel like I’m saying something worthwhile that no one else has said, so I generally don’t say anything at all. That’s not how I am in LIVE conversations – maybe I’d feel differently if I didn’t grow up before the internet. Or emails. Or personal computers.
    One thing that helps me (A LITTLE) is I have a goal of leaving at least three comments on other people’s blogs each week. As sorry a number as that is, I sometimes fail to meet it, but the embarassment of having to report that failure USUALLY helps me make sure I fulfill it.
    Good advice overall – the most important being to HAVE FUN. Thanx for the post!

    • H.R.R. Gorman says:

      No problem! And you’re right – if leaving comments sucks the fun out of it, then you shouldn’t feel compelled to do it! Often just making a post and quietly using it as motivation, practice, or as a more professional newsletter can get you what you want.

  6. Sophia Ismaa says:

    Start a conversation, be the reader you want other people to be. – agreed! It’s important to leave comments the way you’d like to receive comments. Blogging is a hard business, but you’ll forget that if you enjoy it. I would probably add as well to take a break if you find yourself burnt out & not enjoying it. I have to say, also, that WP is better than Twitter, I feel like WP helps you to actually create your own community and engage with other bloggers better.

    Great advice!

    • H.R.R. Gorman says:

      Thanks! I feel like Twitter can be great to say quick things, but it’s also great to say something that can be misconstrued. Thus, I prefer blogs where you can have links, sources, and more communication.

  7. Ari says:

    A helpful and detailed post. I don’t think ppl realise how much time, patience and effort are needed to blog or how long it can take to see results so get disheartened if their blog doesn’t do brilliantly right out of the gate

    • H.R.R. Gorman says:

      Blogs often don’t do well even a year, or more, out of the gate (especially if one doesn’t make a concerted effort to interact with others). I think it’s important to have goals, but the internet is a fickle mistress and stats can drive you bonkers!

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